Application and guidelines
A PREFACE
So many dominatrixes, so many texts.
They all contain the same words, make the same promises and fuel the same desire - to be at the mercy of a dominant/naturally gifted woman who is of course empathetic and sadistic at the same time (I am not sure how sensitivity and abusing and hurting someone for your own desires go together) while fulfilling YOUR wishes and fantasies. How much surrender there is actually involved and required when/if your wishes are fulfilled is a topic for another time.
Now there are men who come to me because they have to. They feel it, know it and something inside them won't let them escape. They know that they will get what they need from me - not what they want. That is absolutely clear to these people. Then there are those who are also guided by something inside of them. Something that they cannot explain logically. It is a sensation, a feeling - of security, familiarity, curiosity and so much more. Whatever it is that is speaking: it is quiet, calm, gentle and yet absolutely clear. That is your inner voice - YOU - and it shows you the way. If you hear that, you belong to me, you have come to the right place. This voice is the inner call for more... more depth, more feelings, more connection. This makes it possible to meet on a heart level and to immerse yourself in a completely different way than if only your best part drove you to visit a mistress. That is how you can tell which dominatrix is for you - regardless of whether all the texts sound the same or are sometimes simply copied without hesitation and shame. It is your feeling that will guide you. Maybe to me or to another place… but definitely to you.
VITAL INFORMATION
My world of SM may be completely different from what you are used to and have experienced so far.
So here are a few guidelines:
Salutation/form of address:
(Important in the German language)
My clients know it and people who truly belong to me don't ask themselves this question.
Nevertheless, to summarize briefly:
You address me with the royal 'You', whether on the phone, in the pre-/post-conversation or during the session. The reason behind this is that you can take your place as a slave/pupil and man with me - not a role in which salutations can change or be freely chosen. If you are offended by this, it only shows what I will work on with you - assuming I invite you at all in this case - because these are normal rules of politeness and etiquette. See 'School of Manners & Etiquette'
Appointments:
These should be requested in a timely manner (at least 1-2 days in advance). For me, this automatically excludes guests who just want to get a quick kick and who don't really care who provides it. I place great value on long-term relationships in which trust, devotion, humility and depth can truly develop and where the client's aspirations are aligned accordingly.
New slaves have to request the appointment in writing - you may suggest 2-3 date options to me and I will then let you know everything else
Sessions:
Again, absolutely normal for true SM lovers.
Nevertheless: for me it is not about your fantasies, desires or sexual preferences that you want to live out or indulge in. There are other women who will happily assist you with that. My mission is a different one. I am here for you to open yourself to humility, devotion, truth and love towards the feminine and to experience yourself in it. For me these are not just words, but really tangible (physical and emotional) states. And these are completely different experiences than those you experience in the intoxication of sexual urges. The experiences I grant access to and what I stand for are profound, radical, enriching and moving.
Tribute:
Quality has its price. My fees range between 330 and 500 euros per hour.
Those who want quality and depth will appreciate it.
For longer sessions, the price stays the same and complaining, haggling and bargaining unfortunately won't change anything. In fact, this only encourages me to increase my honorarium, than to give you a discount.
APPLICATION PROCESS
I choose my clients/slaves very carefully and can tell from the very first contact whether you belong to me and are a good fit or if you still need other experiences before you can come into my realm - this includes you already having the requirements above integrated and taking them for granted or at least being willing and open to wanting to learn. Contact is made either by phone or email - not by text message. Regardless of who you are or how much experience you have already gained, I will have a personal preliminary talk with you - in which I will ask about your physical frame and your taboos, among other things - and feel into your readiness and potential. However, an invitation to a preliminary talk does not automatically mean that you qualify for a session.